Hello everyone!   This my first blog and I just wanted to let people know what my intentions for having this blog were.  I am going to let people in on the thoughts I have about everything.  Anything from sports to our everyday lives, to our personal relationships with God.  

Marriage:

Since this is my first blog, I will start slow.  I am getting married in less that three weeks.  Now, to most guys this would be a time when the cold feet might start creeping in and they might start second guess themselves.  I have been praying for and about this day for a long time and God has blessed me with the most wonderful person to share my life with.  

I take marriage very seriously mainly because I come from a broken home in which my mother and father deciding that they where not meant for each other.  I know what it's like to suffer through something like that and not know what is going on.  You toy with the idea that maybe you did something wrong that might have caused this final decision.  

As the day approaches I have been thinking about vows.  They are words that bind one another together forever.  They have meaning behind them in which both individuals can relate to and cherish for ever.  I declare this:  I will only be married one time to one person.  I love Jordan more than anything on this earth and I think so many people take marriage as a joke.  Our states make it so easy to get out of.  We as a culture have tarnished what marriage really means.  The meaning of two people coming together to form one has somehow gotten twisted into a joke of some sorts.  Jesus showed us on the cross that it only takes one person to take a stand and make a difference so on April 26, 2008.  Jordan and I will take a stand not only for ourselves and our families but for all those out their that believe that TRUE LOVE WAITS!!!!!!!

Thats is it for today.  God is love!!!!

Justin Abercrombie

Carpenters Church Children's pastor